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Bel · 11-30-2009, 04:50 PM

Hi,

I tried the no contact thing to - lasted about 5 days in the end. Not because I broke but my other half did.. He wants to be 'friends' etc. I want him to miss me not just want to be friends. He rang me twice on the weekend.. I didn't take the calls but did txt him saying I was busy. He replied with I just wanted to know how much to cut back the trees.... Well to me that's something that could have been done in txt anyway so why call??
I think in his own way (and maybe your wife's) he was just 'checking up' seeing if I'd answer etc. I REALLY didn't want to answer but it felt rude not to LOL I shouldn't care about being rude to him really.
He rang me again last night and wants to catch up - Undecided if I should go.

What's the reasoning behind you wanting to have a no contact seperation?
If it's something you have read in books and think it's going to fix everything (like I felt) then I'm not sure it really works. Follow you heart and listen to your head, I think most of us know what's the best decision to make in the end....

11-30-2009, 04:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
Bel Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 28	Re: Trying the no contact separation Hi, I tried the no contact thing to - lasted about 5 days in the end. Not because I broke but my other half did.. He wants to be 'friends' etc. I want him to miss me not just want to be friends. He rang me twice on the weekend.. I didn't take the calls but did txt him saying I was busy. He replied with I just wanted to know how much to cut back the trees.... Well to me that's something that could have been done in txt anyway so why call?? I think in his own way (and maybe your wife's) he was just 'checking up' seeing if I'd answer etc. I REALLY didn't want to answer but it felt rude not to LOL I shouldn't care about being rude to him really. He rang me again last night and wants to catch up - Undecided if I should go. What's the reasoning behind you wanting to have a no contact seperation? If it's something you have read in books and think it's going to fix everything (like I felt) then I'm not sure it really works. Follow you heart and listen to your head, I think most of us know what's the best decision to make in the end....