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bhappy3 · 06-28-2008, 08:54 AM

Well, in my case, my husband is so absorbed in his hobbies that he just doesn't think about sex. He's always had a low libido, and the hobbies just magnify it. I think his upbringing has A LOT to do with it as well... he was raised mennonite, his dad is dominant, mom is submissive, he feels bad for his mom having to do things that his dad makes her do... I think maybe he doesn't want to be like his dad at all and it's seriously affecting him.

These are just some things I see in my own relationship. I understand what you're going through... sex crazed men saturates our society in everything we do, commercials, billboards, news, talk shows, the list goes on and on and when you have this man who doesn't feel the urges like other men do, you start to feel like something's wrong with him or with you.

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bhappy3 Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 157	Re: my man dont want sex Well, in my case, my husband is so absorbed in his hobbies that he just doesn't think about sex. He's always had a low libido, and the hobbies just magnify it. I think his upbringing has A LOT to do with it as well... he was raised mennonite, his dad is dominant, mom is submissive, he feels bad for his mom having to do things that his dad makes her do... I think maybe he doesn't want to be like his dad at all and it's seriously affecting him. These are just some things I see in my own relationship. I understand what you're going through... sex crazed men saturates our society in everything we do, commercials, billboards, news, talk shows, the list goes on and on and when you have this man who doesn't feel the urges like other men do, you start to feel like something's wrong with him or with you. __________________ :