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swedish · 11-30-2009, 07:33 PM

It almost sounds that everything that bothers your wife is related to her questioning whether you 'want' her and how much...Is she generally insecure, jealous?

I can agree with her to a point, that it's important to choose your words carefully and to try to make her feel loved but to never discuss anything that might upset her is ridiculous...it will backfire on her as you will eventually find others to talk to about these things and push her further away.

11-30-2009, 07:33 PM	#4 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 2,521	Re: Newly Wed in need of a little advice... It almost sounds that everything that bothers your wife is related to her questioning whether you 'want' her and how much...Is she generally insecure, jealous? I can agree with her to a point, that it's important to choose your words carefully and to try to make her feel loved but to never discuss anything that might upset her is ridiculous...it will backfire on her as you will eventually find others to talk to about these things and push her further away.