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seeking sanity · 11-30-2009, 10:07 PM

Thanks Peacefully,

We have talks periodically, and she's said, in not some many words, that she doesn't want to be married to me. So I get that and I'm not trying to lobby for myself. I've done that too. Hell, I've done every wrong thing a man can do.

I don't want to be divorced, but I also don't want to be in a marriage where I get lied to and don't get my physical needs met. She's made it clear she isn't attracted to me. Yet she's also said we things click we are perfect together. She often twitters about how lonely and sad she is, especially on days she doesn't have the kids.

I'd love it she somehow became a model repentant wife. I don't hope for it or expect it. I just don't get why loneliness/sadness is a better option than the work it would take to rebuild. Single parenting sucks. Nights without the kids suck too.

I just don't get why. I really don't.

11-30-2009, 10:07 PM	#3 (permalink)
seeking sanity Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 171	Re: Is this a bad idea? Thanks Peacefully, We have talks periodically, and she's said, in not some many words, that she doesn't want to be married to me. So I get that and I'm not trying to lobby for myself. I've done that too. Hell, I've done every wrong thing a man can do. I don't want to be divorced, but I also don't want to be in a marriage where I get lied to and don't get my physical needs met. She's made it clear she isn't attracted to me. Yet she's also said we things click we are perfect together. She often twitters about how lonely and sad she is, especially on days she doesn't have the kids. I'd love it she somehow became a model repentant wife. I don't hope for it or expect it. I just don't get why loneliness/sadness is a better option than the work it would take to rebuild. Single parenting sucks. Nights without the kids suck too. I just don't get why. I really don't.