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peacefully · 11-30-2009, 10:14 PM

You say that she's said she isn't attracted to you (ouch) and that she lied to you and didn't meet your needs in the marriage, yet she 'twitters' about being lonely and sad when she is alone?
Pardon my forwardness, but it sounds like she was (at least acting) lonely and sad IN the marriage too?

If she is an unhappy person, no one can change that. It sounds like you've tried, and tried, and tried...

You know what you DON'T want in a marriage, have you thought about what you DO want? If so, is she capable and willing to give that to you?

I don't have the answers as to why, but I have the impression that it's more to do with HER than YOU?

11-30-2009, 10:14 PM	#4 (permalink)
peacefully Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 43	Re: Is this a bad idea? You say that she's said she isn't attracted to you (ouch) and that she lied to you and didn't meet your needs in the marriage, yet she 'twitters' about being lonely and sad when she is alone? Pardon my forwardness, but it sounds like she was (at least acting) lonely and sad IN the marriage too? If she is an unhappy person, no one can change that. It sounds like you've tried, and tried, and tried... You know what you DON'T want in a marriage, have you thought about what you DO want? If so, is she capable and willing to give that to you? I don't have the answers as to why, but I have the impression that it's more to do with HER than YOU?