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cao428 · 06-28-2008, 10:36 AM

Yes my husband uses the "just friends" line too about her. It's hard to stay strong when we are in torment, and I know what you are going through!

I have been going to the club to work out, but after the last lie just before he left about the gift visa card, I got depressed and so stopped going. I am going to try to pick that up again because it will make me feel better. Can you exercise in anyway? It will help the stress some. I also found music extremely helpful as some kind of therapy.

I know what you mean about how they view the other person. We are the ones who have been wronged and are unhappy and angry as a result. We are the victims..but we have to try not to focus on those negative thoughts as hard as it is. It's not easy!

06-28-2008, 10:36 AM	#6 (permalink)
cao428 Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: North East USA Posts: 141	Re: What to do when they won't come clean? Yes my husband uses the "just friends" line too about her. It's hard to stay strong when we are in torment, and I know what you are going through! I have been going to the club to work out, but after the last lie just before he left about the gift visa card, I got depressed and so stopped going. I am going to try to pick that up again because it will make me feel better. Can you exercise in anyway? It will help the stress some. I also found music extremely helpful as some kind of therapy. I know what you mean about how they view the other person. We are the ones who have been wronged and are unhappy and angry as a result. We are the victims..but we have to try not to focus on those negative thoughts as hard as it is. It's not easy!