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BigBadWolf · 12-01-2009, 07:58 AM

Playing XBox and being apathetic as to what your wife is doing? Female friends on FB? Please, for the sake of your marriage and your sanity STOP treating your wife like a "pal" and learn how to treat her like a woman.

In case you or anyone else in the world doesn't know, if she's a woman then YES she is insecure and YES she is jealous. Take that to the bank. Want to make her happy? Take control of the little things like establishing bedtime routines, go out of your way to make her feel protected and cherished. If she acts "unreasonable", then it's simple, it is your responsibility to just treat her like a little girl. Yes, I said it. It may sound disrespectful to your ears but to her it makes her feel attended to, loved, cared for in a fun way...in short, she feels like she's your lady, and will go a LONG way to easing her insecurities.

12-01-2009, 07:58 AM	#7 (permalink)
BigBadWolf Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 253	Re: Newly Wed in need of a little advice... Playing XBox and being apathetic as to what your wife is doing? Female friends on FB? Please, for the sake of your marriage and your sanity STOP treating your wife like a "pal" and learn how to treat her like a woman. In case you or anyone else in the world doesn't know, if she's a woman then YES she is insecure and YES she is jealous. Take that to the bank. Want to make her happy? Take control of the little things like establishing bedtime routines, go out of your way to make her feel protected and cherished. If she acts "unreasonable", then it's simple, it is your responsibility to just treat her like a little girl. Yes, I said it. It may sound disrespectful to your ears but to her it makes her feel attended to, loved, cared for in a fun way...in short, she feels like she's your lady, and will go a LONG way to easing her insecurities.