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nice777guy · 12-01-2009, 10:35 AM

I don't think you need to tell them about the OW. Could be wrong, but it sounds like you are just wanting to look better than your spouse. Often - when we do that - we end up looking worse for pointing fingers.

Don't sink to his level. Act with integrity and don't turn this into a pi$$ing match.

Give them time and I bet they'll figure it out on their own.

12-01-2009, 10:35 AM	#4 (permalink)
nice777guy Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 487	Re: need some opinions I don't think you need to tell them about the OW. Could be wrong, but it sounds like you are just wanting to look better than your spouse. Often - when we do that - we end up looking worse for pointing fingers. Don't sink to his level. Act with integrity and don't turn this into a pi$$ing match. Give them time and I bet they'll figure it out on their own.