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nice777guy · 12-01-2009, 11:38 AM

Like I said - I'm really struggling with this idea of "working on ourselves" in a situation where I'm pretty comfortable in my own imperfect skin.

The things I plan to work on will be the things that will make ME happy - and not necessarily what SHE thinks I should be doing.

And there's nothing I can work on by myself to make me trust her again. No amount of personal therapy, meditation, exercise, reading, etc. - will make me trust her again.

Its completely up to her to rebuild the trust we once had, and I'm just not sure how she'll do that while living in an apartment by herself.

12-01-2009, 11:38 AM	#10 (permalink)
nice777guy Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 447	Re: Lonely Like I said - I'm really struggling with this idea of "working on ourselves" in a situation where I'm pretty comfortable in my own imperfect skin. The things I plan to work on will be the things that will make ME happy - and not necessarily what SHE thinks I should be doing. And there's nothing I can work on by myself to make me trust her again. No amount of personal therapy, meditation, exercise, reading, etc. - will make me trust her again. Its completely up to her to rebuild the trust we once had, and I'm just not sure how she'll do that while living in an apartment by herself.