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Thanks CW - She currently works 4 days a week and cannot drop any days there which does add to her feelings I am sure. As far as the other things, I am a very hands on helper and have also suggested a maid or other things to assist as it would be far cheaper than a divorce but she refuses.

Thank you also Atholk - You are correct on the earlier stuff and at this point I am trying very hard to keep a positive attitude but do share your thoughts that this is a bullsh*t answer and something I don't think is possible. That is why I am looking for feedback from others and truly want this to work out so I will hold onto anything right now. But trust me I am grounded and have a complete understanding of myself, what I would have to if we were to end it and have mentally prepared myself for an end if that occurred.

All feedback is excellent as this thing needs to be thought through from every angle