Re: Trying the no contact separation
I'm not going to say I was the perfect husband but I worked very hard to afford to live while she worked part time. i was not always home and she would make dinner for me and then when i got home and let the dog out i would go to the shop to work on stuff for the business. so she was lonely. big mistake on my part.
she had surgery in april for endometrious for the second time but this time she was on bed rest. I'm sure that i was not a great husband being that i could have been more supportive.
when she felt better she went and played in the civic band over the summer which meant trips to her mothers on wednesday's and came back on thursdays. i thought that was great seeing how last summer she had carpal tunnel surgery done to both of her wrist and couldn't play at all.
she also started a diet plan around that time. she lost 50 pounds over the next 6 months and looks great. she is now a health coach for that program.
she wrote on her facebook that she was thankful for her friends and family but "she was glad she could move out and move on and be safe" which i don't get i never abused her pyhsically but maybe thats what she has been telling people to get them to help her out?
I really love her still and hope that she will realize the grass isn't greener and that running away from her problems will not solve anything.
she was planning on going back to school next year to be a guidance counselour because so many schools have cut music programs.
Thanks everyone for the support
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