Moonlight

I think he is cheating because he can. I think also that he can't possibly LOVE this person like he had said after 3 weeks. I think he may just be so depressed and wanting something new that that emotion was the closest thing he could compare it to I guess?

I dont have to worry about the two of them meeting just yet. She is clear across the globe. But I dont think we'll be intimate again, it has been 8 months already. Although this isnt a physical affair,yet, it just feels so violating because I was that person he could turn to, and connect with.

No i hadnt specifically said anything about my evidence. Just tested the waters with the " if you want to start talking to other people" line. Not ready for that just yet...

We need each other before this big move. Economically mostly. Each day I feel as if Im coming to terms and peace with my situation, of course it gets off kilter when some new evidence surfaces but this has been a great outlet for my thoughts and queries. Thank you so much for your help cao428, I feel for you and your sit. with your husband. I will be updating on mine if something new happens, and will follow up on yours if you choose to do the same. Thanks again! You are in my thoughts.