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michael_o · 06-29-2008, 06:38 PM

Hello,

I am new to this forum. I have been reading through your posts and my heart goes out to you. My wife and I have been in counseling for 4 years. We have been on a rollercoaster ride over that time. While couples couseling helps, the first step is individual counseling. It sounds like you have been hurt several times and that can destroy your confidence and since it sounds like your husband doesn't want to reconcile, it will be important for you to be confident and strong as things proceed.

As far as your husband, you have no control over him. He can either figure out he wants to be with you and stick with it or move on and let your heart heal.

I wish you the best of luck and hope that no matter what happens, you find peace.

06-29-2008, 06:38 PM	#14 (permalink)
michael_o Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Troy, Michigan Posts: 1	Re: Questions Arising From Marriage Counseling Hello, I am new to this forum. I have been reading through your posts and my heart goes out to you. My wife and I have been in counseling for 4 years. We have been on a rollercoaster ride over that time. While couples couseling helps, the first step is individual counseling. It sounds like you have been hurt several times and that can destroy your confidence and since it sounds like your husband doesn't want to reconcile, it will be important for you to be confident and strong as things proceed. As far as your husband, you have no control over him. He can either figure out he wants to be with you and stick with it or move on and let your heart heal. I wish you the best of luck and hope that no matter what happens, you find peace. __________________ Where am I???