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D8zed · 12-02-2009, 10:59 AM

It's up to him to realize the kids want/need to see him and it's up to him to make the necessary arrangements to make that happen. If he calls and says "hey, I want to come over and spend some time with the girls", then you can decide if it's okay if he does that in your home or if you'd prefer he takes them elsewhere. That way, you're not denying him the need to see the girls. If he wants to spend time with them in your home, maybe you can use that to spend some time alone - local library, bookstore, coffee shop, shopping, etc.

12-02-2009, 10:59 AM	#15 (permalink)
D8zed Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 252	Re: threatening divorce? what next? It's up to him to realize the kids want/need to see him and it's up to him to make the necessary arrangements to make that happen. If he calls and says "hey, I want to come over and spend some time with the girls", then you can decide if it's okay if he does that in your home or if you'd prefer he takes them elsewhere. That way, you're not denying him the need to see the girls. If he wants to spend time with them in your home, maybe you can use that to spend some time alone - local library, bookstore, coffee shop, shopping, etc. __________________ D8zed and Confused