Tweak

I agree ALOT with this as it goes hand in hand with what I have read and learned over the years.
See I used to be labeled a "Good Boy" in School.I still am to the extent that I do not cheat or beat my wife.However I am a sexual animal with her and always try knew things.
I think when I was dating different girls,being labeled a "good boy" actually made something snap in me.It was as if I knew subconsciously that women needed this domination.But it took years to finally get a clue about it.
Now I am a "Good but Bad Boy" with my wife.Although when we were dating she has admitted that I was a "Bad Boy".

One key point I want to add to your statements above is that ALL women love Bad Boys,this is FACT,but the other point with this is that all women tend to want to reform/save/convert this Bad Boy to be true and faithful to only one woman.This is why women tend to hurt themselves with Bad Boys,they think he will change.In fact some Bad Boys do change,but they change because of true love or growing up and realizing they need a steady relationship.Ever heard a woman say "I love him so much,even though he is not good for me"?

The problem I have,as I am sure most people that read this would agree,is that Bad Boys that learn this above information coupled with knowing how to find a woman's hot buttons is a "player" or "man hoe".Using this information to better ones relationship with his wife is wonderful and I am sure it will work most of the time.However if a single guy was to read this it could cause harm in that he would be promiscuous and destroy alot of women.

I will be honest and say that if I knew and understood these things 15 years ago,I would have had a list of girls/women a mile long.I thank God I was blind because I truly would have hated this,because I cannot stand to see a woman cry and I would surely have caused alot of it.


***Edit-While My wife agrees she likes the occasional love pat on the bottom,she has stated it makes her mad to be spanked.I think this may vary from woman to woman.Now I will agree that the occasional smack on the bottom during sex is erotic and on occasion she has had a Orgasm with the little smack.She has stated implicitly she does not like it and it ticks her off.Maybe it is a timing issue?I do know that I have pulled her hair and while making love and she has came really hard. This is in essence the same thing,a show of domination.