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draconis · 10-03-2007, 11:30 PM

My heart goes out to you too.

My wife and I went through the same thing a little more then a year ago. It seemed we just where breaking apart. It got down to an arguement our 7th in 10 years together. But the srguement opened up communications too.

I also had talked with my wife's brother who gave me insight into her and how better to approach her. You see it was that she wanted something and I didn't have a problem with it but how things happened. (She wanted to goto college and signed up, I wanted to help make the decisions since my work had to change to accomidate her.)

Children should never be used as a reason fire is low in a relationship. I have four from 12 to one years old. They haven't every dampened my relationship with the wife.

I think you need to open up communications. If you can't do it yourself get a cousilor involved.

draconis

10-03-2007, 11:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,330	Re: I'm redhot. She's Ice cold My heart goes out to you too. My wife and I went through the same thing a little more then a year ago. It seemed we just where breaking apart. It got down to an arguement our 7th in 10 years together. But the srguement opened up communications too. I also had talked with my wife's brother who gave me insight into her and how better to approach her. You see it was that she wanted something and I didn't have a problem with it but how things happened. (She wanted to goto college and signed up, I wanted to help make the decisions since my work had to change to accomidate her.) Children should never be used as a reason fire is low in a relationship. I have four from 12 to one years old. They haven't every dampened my relationship with the wife. I think you need to open up communications. If you can't do it yourself get a cousilor involved. draconis