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sadandhurt · 12-02-2009, 08:35 PM

Went to the marriage counselor. The counselor told my husband that this is an emotional affair, and it only will lead to a physical affair. It needs to end. My husband isn't sure if he wants to end this. He said it has taken him 28 years to find her, and he isn't going to lose her. I would say our marriage is over. I will be an actress through the holidays for the kids. After that, I may just wait until the kids are out of high school to permanently end this relationship. This makes me very sad. Do you think it is wrong to stay in a marriage for the sake of kids? Sad and confused. So upset that I will not even talk to husband. Oh...Counselor said it would be fine to call the husband and tell him. He saw nothing wrong with this.

12-02-2009, 08:35 PM	#14 (permalink)
sadandhurt Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 14	Re: 23 Years of Marriage that May be Ending Went to the marriage counselor. The counselor told my husband that this is an emotional affair, and it only will lead to a physical affair. It needs to end. My husband isn't sure if he wants to end this. He said it has taken him 28 years to find her, and he isn't going to lose her. I would say our marriage is over. I will be an actress through the holidays for the kids. After that, I may just wait until the kids are out of high school to permanently end this relationship. This makes me very sad. Do you think it is wrong to stay in a marriage for the sake of kids? Sad and confused. So upset that I will not even talk to husband. Oh...Counselor said it would be fine to call the husband and tell him. He saw nothing wrong with this.