Re: You'll need an open mind for this one...
To me experimentation and carnal desires are meant to be explored while single, dating and/or even in a long term relationship. Once we get married I think we then made a choice to become focused sexually on our spouse and not others. Of course this doesn't mean we can't talk about it and fantasize but I think if the act actually takes place another level is reached and the things that happen can quickly spiral out of control and not in a good way. It is hard for us as humans to take the emotions out of such acts and just look at it as a carnal desire and leave it at that and more times than not it seems to lead to troubles in the marriage.
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