Re: trying to stay faithful
There I times where I feel the same way. I've actually reverted to doing things that I did when we were either dating or newlyweds. I send her emails throughout the day (not everyday mind you) and sometimes call and set up a date. So we either get a sitter or after they go to bed I get flowers, either make or bring home a nice late dinner, maybe get some strawberries and champagne...you get the drill. She told me these little acts that I do everyone once in awhile makes her feel sexy and wanted again and for a few hours she doesn't have to play mom. I've also tried to arrange a getaway romantic evening but with 4 kids under 6 that only happened once and it was really great. I've actually also introduced chocolate syrup into our bed one night and drove her nuts. Basically try and make her feel wanted and sexy and she'll return the favor by trying to look and be sexy for you. I hope this helps.
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