Re: text message between husband and "friend"
Maybe he's right and just finds her fun to talk to on a friendship level. I personally don't tell my wife about my female friends that I talk to from time to time and really don't think that much about it. On the other hand if she asks me about someone I tell her who it is and why I like talking to her. Since you have a strong marriage I would definately ask him why he likes to talk to her so much but try to do it in a way that doesn't put him in defensive mode. Don't back him in a corner if you don't think anything is happening but communicate with him that you're stressed over the situation and would just like more of the story.
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