Re: New Baby - why has only my life changed?
No this is NOT normal. Sure it's important for each of you to have your own time that time decreases exponencially as you have kids. It sounds like he was set in his ways before the baby was born and is having trouble adjusting. Talk with him and see about family time after dinner for an hour then he can go to the garage for an hour. Following that time with the baby and after you and baby are asleep he can have his computer time. Basically try and reinvent his afterwork routine without taking things out, you're just adding one or two activities with you and baby and shortening his time a little bit. Hopefully he goes for this and after he realized how wonderful it is to spend time with his baby he'll start volunteering more time on his own.
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