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827Aug · 06-30-2008, 06:59 AM

Hi cao,

You are more than welcome to use my list.

We have something else in common too. We both keep our husbands' business going. Mine is clueless as to what to do with the actual business side of things. That's one reason ours is in such a mess. In 2006 when all of my husband's bad behavior began, he said he could run it just fine without me. He was so nasty too me and also told me I was a complete failure as a business manager. At least everyone was paid and some of the things were even paid in advance. Our net income from the previous year was over $300,000. Anyway, my self-esteem couldn't take his criticism. To make a long story short, I left him with the business for six months and came back to a disaster. He is now $700,000 in the hole and I've been having a tough time gaining any ground it. We are still "liquid" and I think our business could be saved. However, to save the business, I believe our marriage would have to be saved first. He just doesn't get it.

I wish I could offer more help with the issue of your husband and the Chinese lady. At least there is plenty of distance between them now. With that being said, perhaps the distance factor will ruin what they have going on. However, if he is cheating, he'll possibly find someone else. When your husband goes out of the country to work, do you know where he is going? Or does he just TELL you where he is going?

06-30-2008, 06:59 AM	#11 (permalink)
827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 258	Re: What to do when they won't come clean? Hi cao, You are more than welcome to use my list. We have something else in common too. We both keep our husbands' business going. Mine is clueless as to what to do with the actual business side of things. That's one reason ours is in such a mess. In 2006 when all of my husband's bad behavior began, he said he could run it just fine without me. He was so nasty too me and also told me I was a complete failure as a business manager. At least everyone was paid and some of the things were even paid in advance. Our net income from the previous year was over $300,000. Anyway, my self-esteem couldn't take his criticism. To make a long story short, I left him with the business for six months and came back to a disaster. He is now $700,000 in the hole and I've been having a tough time gaining any ground it. We are still "liquid" and I think our business could be saved. However, to save the business, I believe our marriage would have to be saved first. He just doesn't get it. I wish I could offer more help with the issue of your husband and the Chinese lady. At least there is plenty of distance between them now. With that being said, perhaps the distance factor will ruin what they have going on. However, if he is cheating, he'll possibly find someone else. When your husband goes out of the country to work, do you know where he is going? Or does he just TELL you where he is going?