Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - text message between husband and "friend"

827Aug · 06-30-2008, 08:05 AM

It seems everyone is responding to this thread here, so I'll do the same....

Do you trust your husband? Has he given you any reason not to trust him? Has he been acting any differently towards you since he has been in contact with this lady? Chances are this is completely innocent. I do find it a little odd that he hasn't even mentioned her though. I'm also wondering why her number is first in his directory. Is his directory arranged alphabetically?

Now, with my husband and his text messages, that's a completely different story. If you have read some of my post, you'll understand why I can't stand to see all the text messaging he does. He's always getting and sending messages. My husband has proven himself unfaithful. One time when my husband did put his phone down (really rare), I saw two text messages. Both of them were from ???????. In one message, she had arranged them a hotel room for the weekend. In the other she was confirming dinner plans. Boy, when I ask about those, they got erased in a hurry!

Hopefully you have nothing to worry about. Some guys can have female friends, and it can be completely innocent.

06-30-2008, 08:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 258	Re: text message between husband and "friend" It seems everyone is responding to this thread here, so I'll do the same.... Do you trust your husband? Has he given you any reason not to trust him? Has he been acting any differently towards you since he has been in contact with this lady? Chances are this is completely innocent. I do find it a little odd that he hasn't even mentioned her though. I'm also wondering why her number is first in his directory. Is his directory arranged alphabetically? Now, with my husband and his text messages, that's a completely different story. If you have read some of my post, you'll understand why I can't stand to see all the text messaging he does. He's always getting and sending messages. My husband has proven himself unfaithful. One time when my husband did put his phone down (really rare), I saw two text messages. Both of them were from ???????. In one message, she had arranged them a hotel room for the weekend. In the other she was confirming dinner plans. Boy, when I ask about those, they got erased in a hurry! Hopefully you have nothing to worry about. Some guys can have female friends, and it can be completely innocent.