Hi 827Aug,
Yes he tells me where he is going but I told him no more jobs in China or we are done..I don't know if he is still in contact with her, only that he sent her that letter and money.
Our business is failing too...because he is never here to attend to it. We have apts. and most are vacant either because they need renovation or for other reasons. sounds so similar to yours too because I used to pay all of the bills for them and handle the finances, and he critisized me too, even though everything was paid and I also cleaned up our credit. I decided not to do it so we hired a management company and they have been doing a lousey job. We terminated them so now I will be taking it over again
I have been working full time plus micro-managing the management company which I had to do because of their sloppiness. We had frozen pipes last winter because they didn't check to see if there was oil in the tank..among many other things.
If they lose us they will regret it...it will be interesting to see what happens. Take care!