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Amplexor · 06-30-2008, 11:10 AM

Wonder

You have several possible issues here. I doubt that he resents you because of your health issues. But he may be feeling the responsibilities and health issues are too much for him at this time. That would be something that individual counseling might help with. You said you end up fighting during your couples counseling. What do you fight about? To address your primary concern here, yes people can recover those deeper loving feelings once lost. It will take time an effort for both of you. You need to communicate and perhaps the best way for you to start is with casual small talk. If you sit in silence it is possible you don’t wish to speak because you don’t want a deep conversation. Begin to re-explore the things you used to have in common. Spend time as a family with your kids. Look for something new to do as a couple. We took ball room dancing lessons and had blast. Things can get better but first you must communicate.

06-30-2008, 11:10 AM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 886	Re: Is he bored or really not in love? Wonder You have several possible issues here. I doubt that he resents you because of your health issues. But he may be feeling the responsibilities and health issues are too much for him at this time. That would be something that individual counseling might help with. You said you end up fighting during your couples counseling. What do you fight about? To address your primary concern here, yes people can recover those deeper loving feelings once lost. It will take time an effort for both of you. You need to communicate and perhaps the best way for you to start is with casual small talk. If you sit in silence it is possible you don’t wish to speak because you don’t want a deep conversation. Begin to re-explore the things you used to have in common. Spend time as a family with your kids. Look for something new to do as a couple. We took ball room dancing lessons and had blast. Things can get better but first you must communicate. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.