Originally Posted by Southernsbo

Hi all

I'm a christian and a mother of three but recently I've been asking myself difficult questions due to the difficulties I'm going throug hin my marriage. I hope and pray that God understands why I'm asking all these questions. I've been married for 7 years and in my marriage we are happy this month and the next month we are fighting and it can take the whole month of no communication and tension. All I want to know is, 1.Does a man have a right to refuse to talk to his wife for weeks on time just because they had a fight.2 Does a husband have a right to go away from home without telling the wife for days at a time, purpotedly on business trips. 3, Does a husband have a right to not eat meals at home and divide the bed with pillows so he doesn't even look at his wife 4.Does a husband have a right to talk to other women at all hours of the night be it friends or what but never talks to them when he's in good terms with his wife 5. Does a man have a right to take off his wedding ring when he has a fight with his wife.
That's about what is happening in my marriage. I've prayed for a long time but never got answers. I've talked until I'm dry in th mouth. I've involved both families with relief for a limited period. I'm at my wit's end and do not know what to do. My painful realisation is that it seems like other people have more favour with God than others because despite him treating me this badly, nothing ever happens to show that as a praying woman, My God will not tolerate this treatment of His child. He just goes on living his life despite all the cruel things he's doing to me and when he's ready to reconcile I'm supposed to be very happy and gratefu because in his eyes I'm the one who's at fault.
I wish God could give a straight answer soon so I could know what to do.