jsniceguy

Thanks for all of the advice - In the past couple of months I have done a lot of thinking about who I am and what I want to be. In the past in order to keep family peace I have taken what I thought to be the smarter route but faced with that life possibly ending I have realized that standing my ground some more may have been the better thing. Either way at this point I have taken myself into respect and gone back to doing a lot of the things I enjoy. Being assertive in my work environment has gotten me into management so I assume some of those same techniques should be utilized at home.

Any advice on prepping the scenario to get more than 50% placement of children? If indeed she is soooo overwhelmed by our life and kids why would she deserve them 50% of the time?

thanks