brenda

It sounds as though you had gotten into a depressed state also. I'm happy to hear that you are working out, and taking a more positive attitude towards life. You need to do that for everyone involved (you, the kids, and husband) In order for you and your husband to reconnect you guys need to have some alone time. Having two working parents, money problems, and kids in sports etc. puts a lot of stress on a relationship, it feels like your always running in a rat race. You need to make time for everyone to relax and be happy. You need to have days for you, him, your family, and a date night. I read a quote on one of the discussions in this forum "it's all about balance" I am currently trying to use this statement to improve my own relationship. You need to have a healthy balance for everyone. Does he have a night out with the guys once in a while, and you with your girls? Do you have a few planned family events, and a night where the two of you can enjoy each others company and reconnect? That's a good healthy balance!!