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AZMOMOFTWO · 06-30-2008, 06:05 PM

Brenda,
Thank you. YES!!! We do need all of that. I have a hobby that I enjoy so I go out sometimes...maybe once every 2 months but have sometimes taken trips with these ladies too so I feel I do have me time...maybe not lately but usually. But he does not ever do guys night out. I need to suggest that to him. He did just join a soccer league and I think that's good it will be him time. I've planned a few family events too even a vacation which he seemed to perk up about. Date night, yeah we have never done that but I think I will surprise him, arrange a sitter, and have a night all planned. We also had a bad habit of letting the kids stay up too late...just us being busy and I think that put a strain because by the time they went to bed we really didn't get any time to unwind. I've put a strict bedtime rule in place even here in the summer.

06-30-2008, 06:05 PM	#3 (permalink)
AZMOMOFTWO Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 282	Re: Help! I want to save this marriage Brenda, Thank you. YES!!! We do need all of that. I have a hobby that I enjoy so I go out sometimes...maybe once every 2 months but have sometimes taken trips with these ladies too so I feel I do have me time...maybe not lately but usually. But he does not ever do guys night out. I need to suggest that to him. He did just join a soccer league and I think that's good it will be him time. I've planned a few family events too even a vacation which he seemed to perk up about. Date night, yeah we have never done that but I think I will surprise him, arrange a sitter, and have a night all planned. We also had a bad habit of letting the kids stay up too late...just us being busy and I think that put a strain because by the time they went to bed we really didn't get any time to unwind. I've put a strict bedtime rule in place even here in the summer.