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Crusader,
Thanks for your reply and encouragement. In fact you've given me a great idea. I'll pick a night and arrange a sitter and text him asking him out but being mysterious about where we will go. I've got a great place too, its a go-kart track he's always wanted to go to. Movies just seem so routine but this will be completely different something new. I think if I start this habit of doing that he will pick up on it. I know a positive attitude is contagious. I think a negative one was also contagious and started all of this. I got overwhelmed due to some health issues with one of our kids about 2 years ago and managing the care, working, running kids around to activities, managing a business, and my own full time job. But the health issue is manageable now, I've made some changes with work to free up time and cut back a little on kid's activities so I'm balancing the schedule more and taking on more for him. He's actually a very thoughtful person, he's taken the burden off of me so many times. I think I took it for granted ....