brenda

I think that looking at her e-mail was wrong. It's like reading someone's diary, total invasion of privacy. You need to quit drinking, not slow down. Even if it's only for 6 months, then start limiting your consumption, or don't even start back up. Living with someone who is an angry drunk is not fun. It sounds like she wants to work things out, otherwise she wouldn't have wasted her time talking to you about the situation. You need to prove that you love her and are committed to fixing things, and a good start is quiting drinking, and spending some quality time with her. If you do or say something nice to your wife every day, she'll do the same for you, and perhaps you guys could start over fresh. Good Luck!! and best wishes