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larniegrl · 12-05-2009, 11:18 AM

yep...i agree with scarletblue. can't group us all together djguy13. its like us doing the same for all you men. = 0

anyways...i'm through pushing and trying and failing. I've given and given and given until my figurative hands are bleeding/scarred/torn. I have gotten to the point that I don't even recognize myself.

When you marry...you become a team. It doesn't mean 50/50, but it means best friends/lovers that work to make the best possible world for each other. Selfishness has no place. It will only destroy...and actually marriage has a way of finding those carefully hidden flaws in all of us that we just don't want to yield up.

Men and women...we all have issues. Hitting the bar, getting laid and dying at 60 from pancreatic cancer (alcohol poisoning? i think you would be immune at this point = ) )...it will not give you what is most important in life.

It may help drown out the pain...for awhile.

12-05-2009, 11:18 AM	#14 (permalink)
larniegrl Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: USA Posts: 162	Re: question about household chores yep...i agree with scarletblue. can't group us all together djguy13. its like us doing the same for all you men. = 0 anyways...i'm through pushing and trying and failing. I've given and given and given until my figurative hands are bleeding/scarred/torn. I have gotten to the point that I don't even recognize myself. When you marry...you become a team. It doesn't mean 50/50, but it means best friends/lovers that work to make the best possible world for each other. Selfishness has no place. It will only destroy...and actually marriage has a way of finding those carefully hidden flaws in all of us that we just don't want to yield up. Men and women...we all have issues. Hitting the bar, getting laid and dying at 60 from pancreatic cancer (alcohol poisoning? i think you would be immune at this point = ) )...it will not give you what is most important in life. It may help drown out the pain...for awhile.