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slickplant35 · 07-01-2008, 07:49 AM

Last week I was on this board and received some great advice. As far as my husband is concerned everything is fine between us because we are talking, but in my heart he is still the same old absent person he always was and once again nothing has been resolved. An example of how clueless he is. The other night I whispered in his ear and said oh boy what a night we could have tonight no children we can have wild sex and kind of giggled his response to me was why do you have to plan sex. I wasn't planning I was simply making a cute statement which I thought any other man would have been like oh yeah I am gonna get lucky tonight. Well nothing happened what a suprise. Last night my daughter wasn't home and I said to him oh just think what could happen in this house tonight no child we can scream and yell and be noisy and nobody to listen well you would have thought I said this to a stranger. His response was why the hell do you always have to talk about stupid sex if you need it so bad find a f--ck partner. I looked at him and my mouth fell open. He doesn't realize that I am truly at that point. Well the whole things is that he has a problem I understand that he has to take viagara sometimes. It isn't a problem for me but I guess for him. Well the ending of the story was about an hour later he wanted me to sleep with him. After he spoke to me that way lets forget about it and have sex. NO WAY. I am wondering if he even cares if I had an affair.

07-01-2008, 07:49 AM	#1 (permalink)
slickplant35 Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 34	Continuation of last week Last week I was on this board and received some great advice. As far as my husband is concerned everything is fine between us because we are talking, but in my heart he is still the same old absent person he always was and once again nothing has been resolved. An example of how clueless he is. The other night I whispered in his ear and said oh boy what a night we could have tonight no children we can have wild sex and kind of giggled his response to me was why do you have to plan sex. I wasn't planning I was simply making a cute statement which I thought any other man would have been like oh yeah I am gonna get lucky tonight. Well nothing happened what a suprise. Last night my daughter wasn't home and I said to him oh just think what could happen in this house tonight no child we can scream and yell and be noisy and nobody to listen well you would have thought I said this to a stranger. His response was why the hell do you always have to talk about stupid sex if you need it so bad find a f--ck partner. I looked at him and my mouth fell open. He doesn't realize that I am truly at that point. Well the whole things is that he has a problem I understand that he has to take viagara sometimes. It isn't a problem for me but I guess for him. Well the ending of the story was about an hour later he wanted me to sleep with him. After he spoke to me that way lets forget about it and have sex. NO WAY. I am wondering if he even cares if I had an affair.