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827Aug · 07-01-2008, 10:16 AM

Well, I gave my husband the list yesterday along with a nice note saying that I loved him but was tired of the cruelty. He didn't take it well at all. He is mad! Unfortunately, I've got to work with him again today--I'm trying to prepare myself for another emotionally draining day. I'm also dreading the couseling session tomorrow; it isn't going to be pretty either. My husband keeps telling the counselor that I've always been too controlling. And the counselor agrees with him somewhat. However, I'm not the one who has the affairs and can't manage money. Due to those reasons, I feel my actions are justified.

07-01-2008, 10:16 AM	#15 (permalink)
827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 258	Re: What to do when they won't come clean? Well, I gave my husband the list yesterday along with a nice note saying that I loved him but was tired of the cruelty. He didn't take it well at all. He is mad! Unfortunately, I've got to work with him again today--I'm trying to prepare myself for another emotionally draining day. I'm also dreading the couseling session tomorrow; it isn't going to be pretty either. My husband keeps telling the counselor that I've always been too controlling. And the counselor agrees with him somewhat. However, I'm not the one who has the affairs and can't manage money. Due to those reasons, I feel my actions are justified.