Re: Is he bored or really not in love?
that would probably work if he was open to the idea of going out with just me, but the problem is he's not. He has no interest in doing anything with me except sex. I've almost had it with sex. I don't wantt to have sex with someone who doesn't love me and I shouldn't have to. We talked a little last night and we reallized we're both really stressed out. I'm stressed over how he's acting and it hurts very much. He's stressed over how he feels about me, and he's hurt because i'm hurt. We had therapy yesterday and now he really doesn''t want to go back. We have a bunch of parties and alcohol is involved. So the therapist practically acused him of being an alcoholic. Which is completely rediculous since we have a liquer cabinet that hasn't been touched and we have 3 month old beer in the fridge. Then she spent the next 45 mins reading from a book. Something she read, I just don't understand. It was along the lines of to get feelings back you have to do thngs that you would do if you still had those feelings to begin with. How is this possible? Can someone explan this because neither of us understand.
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