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Old 07-01-2008, 01:27 PM   #10 (permalink)
jumper21
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Default Re: trying to stay faithful

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Originally Posted by Dancing Nancie View Post
I would stop short of saying I am in a similar situation, but I guess it would be close. I would not cheat on my wife, as that would end my marriage, and so it's not an option. You are using the word hinting quite a bit. How can you honestly say your wife knows to the extent of your desires if you are not telling her what your needs are? You need to tell her about how important it is to you and go from there. You should not however tell her you look at other women etc... If you feel as though you have exhausted all avenues and she will not accomodate you, then you can make your decision to separate. In the meantime, I would say masturbate...
I laughed so hard at your last comment. No cheating on wife or spouse at all. My father did and it's something that I wouldn't do. I have not only hinted had confessed to her that I have a problem with her weight. She just doesn't want to put the breaks on her eating habit. It's her addiction, I think. She won't admit it, but I've seen her eat and it's only going to get worse. She just can't stop.
That is I think the big cause. She works out like crazy so I know if she put the breaks on eating, she would lose tons pretty quickly.
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