draconis

Let me take this from several angles.

First a poll taken showed that 30% of all marriages involved one or both people cheating. and that in that most people knew found out about the cheating. So a marriage can survive it.

Second, I have been on many forums and this issue has come up before. Many more people then you think can build back the trust, love and commitment.

Third my perspective. I ended my first marriage because of her cheating. I told my wife I have now that it is something I could never forgive or forget. She has told me the same thing.

So while it is possible it by far is not that everyone can forgive and forget.

draconis