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michzz · 07-01-2008, 04:02 PM

it depends on who was cheating, for how long, and the kinds of lies said, and for how long the lying went on too.

it also depends whomever did the most offending, the cheating, on their stepping up big time to make things right. The betrayed person has to find it in their heart to move past the awfulness. That won't happen without complete candor by the one who cheated.

All the other problems can be dealt with once the huge one is dealt with.

07-01-2008, 04:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
michzz Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 95	Re: Can we let go of our past it depends on who was cheating, for how long, and the kinds of lies said, and for how long the lying went on too. it also depends whomever did the most offending, the cheating, on their stepping up big time to make things right. The betrayed person has to find it in their heart to move past the awfulness. That won't happen without complete candor by the one who cheated. All the other problems can be dealt with once the huge one is dealt with.