dscowgirl

My husband has walked out on me and my three girls, his step kids. All in all it looks as if the stress and responsibility got the best of him and he split. I am trying to give it time, and slowly get to talking to him and go the route of being friends. One dilema, we are into a month of this now and he runs his own business. It deals with training animals. Well I have three animals that he has not trained in over three weeks. I have told him he needs to return them to their owners, yet he faces paying the over 400. he doesn't have. Do I set up an agreement that if he pays for feed, he can still train them. BUt if I do that will it defeat the purpose of him learning on his own and dealing with the responsibilities he has. Tough love or compassionate. I still love him dearly , it's hard for me to let him fall.