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Crusader,
Thanks very much your advice has been so helpful. I think what you said about fixing one small step at a time is important to remember. I want to fix it all in one day! We did have a very good night last night, we play softball together and we went out after with friends to eat. It was like old times and he was laughing and playing with the kids like I haven't seen in a few weeks. Then I realized, I always knew how to make him laugh but I haven't lately. So I am going to bring the fun and laughter back, I know it will be contagious. I am concerned though that he does seem to have some signs of depression. Could that be physcial? When we first discussed these issues and he thought something was missing I asked if it could be within him and he said that was possible but had no answers. I look back over the last couple of years and think that we have had some very good times and some wonderful memories so this seems to be an up and down thing. I know my own mood accounts for it. Having felt overwhelmed myself perhaps my mood was contagious. Anyway, today I definately feel we are on the right road. Last night I said to him that I wanted to make him happy and he said that I did and seemed to really mean it.