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hurtbyher · 12-08-2009, 07:20 AM

It sounds like you both have learned together. I made the same mistake 8 years ago , not giving my wife enough attention, and we recovered. However she was back to her old ways and actually had 2 affairs this time just a year ago. I was doing everything right. Don't stop giving her attention and keep a watchfull eye and ear for the signs. You have to work hard to keep each other happy. The biggest thing is comunication. We also made a plan to meet for lunch once a month and two weeks from that have a date night on the weekend nearest our wedding anniversary. It is easy to fall into the old routine and neglect each other. Good luck and glad to hear things are going well.

12-08-2009, 07:20 AM	#3 (permalink)
hurtbyher Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Iowa Posts: 17	Re: The truth comes out and I am ok with it! It sounds like you both have learned together. I made the same mistake 8 years ago , not giving my wife enough attention, and we recovered. However she was back to her old ways and actually had 2 affairs this time just a year ago. I was doing everything right. Don't stop giving her attention and keep a watchfull eye and ear for the signs. You have to work hard to keep each other happy. The biggest thing is comunication. We also made a plan to meet for lunch once a month and two weeks from that have a date night on the weekend nearest our wedding anniversary. It is easy to fall into the old routine and neglect each other. Good luck and glad to hear things are going well.