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desperatevan · 12-08-2009, 12:15 PM

No - she has cut off contact with that other person. I do know with out a doubt that she has not cheated any other time. I believe her. It did take her 2 years to tell the the truth but I do believe her. The other person is now 2500 miles away and there is no contact via email or phone. She has told me face to face that she has cut off contact and I do believe her and trust her. She is having difficulty forgiving herself and IMO this is preventing her from fully committing to repair our marriage. I know she wants to do it but she is really struggling with how.... as am I.

12-08-2009, 12:15 PM	#3 (permalink)
desperatevan Registered User Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 5	Re: My Wife Has Been Gone 4-1/2 Months!! HELP No - she has cut off contact with that other person. I do know with out a doubt that she has not cheated any other time. I believe her. It did take her 2 years to tell the the truth but I do believe her. The other person is now 2500 miles away and there is no contact via email or phone. She has told me face to face that she has cut off contact and I do believe her and trust her. She is having difficulty forgiving herself and IMO this is preventing her from fully committing to repair our marriage. I know she wants to do it but she is really struggling with how.... as am I.