justean

my hubby and i were already split up , when i was expecting our first. we had our ups and downs. and yes he did meet someone and slept with another, but we werent together. we got back together after our son.
but a friend who was pregnant at the same time, he had been having affairs and left her 6 weeks b 4 their son was born. i know for a fact that it was really tough, he wasnt there for the birth.
but with family and 2 other children, she did cope. He treated her terrible but the women never stopped.
my cousin also same situation, hubby left her 6 weeks b 4 son was born and went of with her best friend( that s why i never had a best friend). she went through the birth with her mother as did my friend. he never bothered with the child and hes 15 now.
but he turned to be a lovely boy. he knows the circumstances.
where as my friend , well the ex has his 3 kids now and again.
yes it will be hard.
can you leave the house and go and stay with family.
no matter what n e way, you will go through huge emotions.
when i was having my first, i was actually expecting to be a single mother. but i found my strength through the fact that i had always wanted a baby and my family helped me through.
its not friends that were the key in n e of these , it was family.