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GAsoccerman · 07-02-2008, 10:28 AM

he won't change and if you get prego, he will resent you and blame you, then blame the children.

It won't be good...

Trust me....

Move on.

I always wanted childred, but they are allot of work and can strain a marriage. We have 3 kids, love them to death, but it is not easy and it tests you everyday. He will not be happy and you will probably get divorced when the stress becomes to much becuase it will be your fault.

Tell him since he does not want kids, you want a divorce so you can find someone that does. See what happens, right now he knows you won't leave, he has his way.

07-02-2008, 10:28 AM	#10 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 534	Re: He dosn't want kids..but I do. he won't change and if you get prego, he will resent you and blame you, then blame the children. It won't be good... Trust me.... Move on. I always wanted childred, but they are allot of work and can strain a marriage. We have 3 kids, love them to death, but it is not easy and it tests you everyday. He will not be happy and you will probably get divorced when the stress becomes to much becuase it will be your fault. Tell him since he does not want kids, you want a divorce so you can find someone that does. See what happens, right now he knows you won't leave, he has his way.