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Originally Posted by A Good Husband
Seriously? SERIOUSLY? Is this even a question? Please tell me this is a joke of some sort.
Dump your girlfriend. Come clean to your wife. If she wants a divorce, give her one. If she wants to work it out, you are the luckiest man alive - and you are in the doghouse for a long, long time.
That said, there are probably some things that your wife can do to help you rekindle the interest and fidelity, but the onus is on you Klop. You messed this up, you'd better fix it.
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Good Husband, thank you for saying that. I appreciate that there are men on this forum that are telling Klop what the deal is. I am a woman whose been cheated on- and I didn't stop having sex with my husband by any means what so ever.... so in my opinion- you (man or woman) are either a cheater, or you're not. That doesn't mean evil- just that you shouldn't be in a committed, monogomous relationship.
Klop, you need to realize that true happiness cannot be attained by hurting others. It will always come back and bite you in the butt.