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sarah1971 · 07-02-2008, 07:29 PM

I have been dating Jo for 5 yrs and we plan on getting married this summer but have a "few" worries and don't know if its just me being over sensitive. Lets start with his "good" points

1. Has a good job with great work ethics.
2. Wonderful to his mom/ with close family
3. My heart melts when I see how much he loves his son(from his 1st marrage) and what a wonderful dad he is.
4. Does not drink/party/or do drugs/smoke
5. Jo is the type that helps old ladies across the street or would feed a stary dog.
6.Handsome and smart women tell me all the time how lucky I am
Now the bad...

1. He cheated on his 1st wife,left her for the "GF" then cheated on the GF with someone else.No "proof" that he cheated on me BUT I have my suspicions..
2. Has a temper(only with me) never hit me but has yelled,swore and threatens to leave me when ever we fight.
3. Sneaky and lies..has a my space page and classmates page with NO photos of me.When asked why he got defensive and rather than put a photo up of me he deleted his accounts.
4. Asked me to pay off his 30k debt from his divorce(yes I had the money but feel he should not ask his GF to pay his divorce debt)
5. Has a controlling,in your face, exwife that uses their son as bait to get everthing she wants from him and does(the reason he was in debt)

So what do you guys think is it me?

07-02-2008, 07:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
sarah1971 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 3	Fiance great catch or big loser I have been dating Jo for 5 yrs and we plan on getting married this summer but have a "few" worries and don't know if its just me being over sensitive. Lets start with his "good" points 1. Has a good job with great work ethics. 2. Wonderful to his mom/ with close family 3. My heart melts when I see how much he loves his son(from his 1st marrage) and what a wonderful dad he is. 4. Does not drink/party/or do drugs/smoke 5. Jo is the type that helps old ladies across the street or would feed a stary dog. 6.Handsome and smart women tell me all the time how lucky I am Now the bad... 1. He cheated on his 1st wife,left her for the "GF" then cheated on the GF with someone else.No "proof" that he cheated on me BUT I have my suspicions.. 2. Has a temper(only with me) never hit me but has yelled,swore and threatens to leave me when ever we fight. 3. Sneaky and lies..has a my space page and classmates page with NO photos of me.When asked why he got defensive and rather than put a photo up of me he deleted his accounts. 4. Asked me to pay off his 30k debt from his divorce(yes I had the money but feel he should not ask his GF to pay his divorce debt) 5. Has a controlling,in your face, exwife that uses their son as bait to get everthing she wants from him and does(the reason he was in debt) So what do you guys think is it me?