| | Re: First post ever because I'm so sad and unhappy
I am also in the same predicament as every other woman on this thread! I'm starting to think that "Men" just do not have the capabilities of loving another individual the way a "Woman" can! I'm sorry, but to anyone who does not agree with me just look at every statistic about Men vs Women that is out there! I am Christian and I don't believe that homosexuality is correct. I'm not trying to critisize Homosexuals! I just don't feel it right in my heart! (To each their own) I mention this because if I ever did think that Homosexuality was ok by God then I would hope and wish to God to be a Lesbian! My sister is a Lesbian and I don't blame her one bit! Men just don't love the way Women do! I'm not saying that Men don't love, but it's just not the same or even close to as deep. I do realise that there are exceptions to the rules so let me note now that if you are a selfless, caring, and loving Man then I am not talking about you! If you are a Loving Man then may God Bless You! I'm speaking out of extreme Hurt and Anger! My husband knows that I am writing this right now and he STILL doesn't care! WTF! It's hurtful, but I tolerate it because I have a family and career to think about first! So basically my feelings are being placed on a back burner! I would never cheat on him, leave him, or hurt him in anyway, but DAMN it really hurts! I have just made him read this as I am typing this and I will let you know his response as soon as I am finished writing how I feel. I guess I will die not having a fulfilled romantic life! I guess I prioritize having a good family network over a romantic relationship. To me, it's worth it. This is the end of my thread and just to let everyone know how my husband responded to this, he basically kept trying to change the conversation. That means he's not going to change because he doesn't want to change! He's just fine with the way things are. Please write back and let me know your opinion!