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MrsLV · 10-04-2007, 12:58 PM

I think that any extra marriatial relationship-even if it is only via text,phone,email (cyber), etc. is just plain wrong. In a marriage, emotional ties are very important and if your s/o is sharing that with someone else-well, that's being unfaithful. In past relationships my ex's as well as myself was guilty of that-but I wasn't married at the time, either. Now as a married woman, I can say without a doubt that I'll never do that to my husband, and I expect the same respect from him. And we've agreed to that-through our pre-marriage conversations, in our vows, and even in talks now.
I am so sorry you have had to go through this, Chloe. I'm sure any sort of relationship therapy would be most helpful. If he is asking for forgivness, please find it in your heart to try to do that. And also remind him that once upon a time the two of you were best friends-if he's looking for a friend then you are right there in front of him.
Good Luck

10-04-2007, 12:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
MrsLV Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 57	Re: My husband cheated on me with in cyberspace I think that any extra marriatial relationship-even if it is only via text,phone,email (cyber), etc. is just plain wrong. In a marriage, emotional ties are very important and if your s/o is sharing that with someone else-well, that's being unfaithful. In past relationships my ex's as well as myself was guilty of that-but I wasn't married at the time, either. Now as a married woman, I can say without a doubt that I'll never do that to my husband, and I expect the same respect from him. And we've agreed to that-through our pre-marriage conversations, in our vows, and even in talks now. I am so sorry you have had to go through this, Chloe. I'm sure any sort of relationship therapy would be most helpful. If he is asking for forgivness, please find it in your heart to try to do that. And also remind him that once upon a time the two of you were best friends-if he's looking for a friend then you are right there in front of him. Good Luck __________________ Seek God BEFORE "all else fails", not WHEN "all else fails".