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I'm disturbed by the fact that no one has addressed the fact that, regardless of what marital problems are present, there is physical abuse occurring. Just because the original poster is a man does not mean he EVER does anything to deserve being physically or emotionally harmed. No one would EVER say a woman "deserved" this kind of treatment regardless of what she's done in the relationship so how dare it be said that this man deserves to be abused? Men have feelings too. Men have a right to happiness and stability and a healthy marriage. Shame on you, Blanca.

I agree with the previous poster and will say that there are two sides to every story. None of us know how the wife is being treated in this scenario but one thing I -am- one hundred percent sure of is that this woman needs help and this man needs to get himself and that child to a safe place as of yesterday. To the original poster... if she, as a woman, has the nerve to make a threat against her own child then you can bet your ass she has the nerve to follow through on it! I don't care what your feelings are for this Swedish woman. I don't care if you move out of the country to be with her. Just get your kid out of that house and go get a divorce lawyer. She needs a doctor but recovery from behavior such as hers is usually long in coming and the results minimal. I don't feel either of you should wait that out.

Besides... people never change.

April