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Originally Posted by Chris H.
I'm pretty sure Dr. Ellen ( LightYourFire) offers some free advice through email. At least she told me she did a few months ago... maybe I can get her to post here...
The important thing to consider with any self-help program or marriage counseling, is that they're only going to work if you put forth the effort and are willing to change. You can listen to a therapist or CD all day long, but if you don't make changes in the way you deal with situations and people in your life, then nothing will change.
In other words, "if nothing changes, nothing will change." (popular saying in mental health field) |
I agree.....but my concern is right now I feel like I am the one that wants it to work and my husband doesnt....according to the testimonials on her site and the others their motos seem to be "its never too late to fix it". I am willing to do whatever I have to do...but I am still skeptical thats why if maybe I could get some input from someone other than what is posted on their websites it might make my decision easier.
If she could post that would be awesome!!